\u0130nsan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi, kafa yormas\u0131 ve m\u00fccadele etmesi gereken o kadar \u00f6nemli mesele varken, hayat\u0131n\u0131 basit, s\u0131radan ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hi\u00e7bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131mayan konular etraf\u0131nda t\u00fcketmesi ciddi bir \u00e7eli\u015fkidir. \u0130nsan, kendisini ve \u00e7evresini ilgilendiren as\u0131l meseleleri g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyor, \u00f6nemsiz s\u00f6zlere anlamlar y\u00fckl\u00fcyor, hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak u\u011fruna ili\u015fkilerini y\u0131prat\u0131yor; bazen de b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden huzurundan, sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ve ya\u015fam sevincinden vazge\u00e7iyor. As\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc olan, insan\u0131n kendisine hi\u00e7bir \u015fey kazand\u0131rmayan meseleler u\u011fruna hayat\u0131ndan bu kadar \u00e7ok \u015fey kaybetti\u011fini \u00e7o\u011fu zaman fark etmemesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn insan\u0131n neye \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden \u00e7ok, ne u\u011fruna \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne; neyle m\u00fccadele etti\u011finden \u00e7ok, bu m\u00fccadelenin kendisine ne kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131na bakmak gerekiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her m\u00fccadele anlaml\u0131, her hakl\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7abas\u0131 do\u011fru de\u011fildir. \u0130nsan bazen hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak isterken kendisini haks\u0131z duruma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcyor, bir ba\u015fkas\u0131na kendisini kabul ettirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken kendi de\u011ferlerinden uzakla\u015f\u0131yor, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir meselede geri ad\u0131m atmamak u\u011fruna b\u00fcy\u00fck kay\u0131plar\u0131 g\u00f6ze al\u0131yor. Oysa kendisine sormas\u0131 gereken basit ama \u00f6nemli bir soru var: U\u011fruna bu kadar zaman harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131m, kendimi ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 yordu\u011fum \u015fey ger\u00e7ekten buna de\u011fer mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan, hayat\u0131n s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 oldu\u011funu bildi\u011fi h\u00e2lde zaman\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l t\u00fcketti\u011fi konusunda ayn\u0131 hassasiyeti g\u00f6stermiyor. Geri getiremeyece\u011fi \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hesapla\u015fmalara ve bitmeyen hakl\u0131l\u0131k m\u00fccadelelerine ay\u0131r\u0131rken kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n nereye gitti\u011fini sorgulamay\u0131 ihmal ediyor. B\u00f6ylece ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnlerin fark\u0131na varmadan, hayat\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirebilecek \u015feyleri erteliyor ve zihnini t\u00fcketen meselelerin i\u00e7inde \u00f6mr\u00fcn\u00fc eksiltiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu durum yaln\u0131zca bireysel bir sorun de\u011fildir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 tahamm\u00fcllerinin azald\u0131\u011f\u0131, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc, ki\u015fisel \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131n insani de\u011ferlerin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ti\u011fi bir ortamda toplumsal ili\u015fkiler de zay\u0131fl\u0131yor. Herkes kendi meselesini b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrken ortak sorunlar geri planda kal\u0131yor; insanlar kendilerini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken birbirlerini anlamaya daha az zaman ay\u0131r\u0131yor. Sonunda ayn\u0131 toplumda ya\u015fayan insanlar, birbirlerinin hayat\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak yerine zorla\u015ft\u0131ran unsurlara d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015febiliyor. Bu nedenle toplumsal bunal\u0131m\u0131n nedenlerini yaln\u0131zca d\u0131\u015f ko\u015fullarda de\u011fil, insan\u0131n kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda ve birlikte ya\u015fama k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcndeki a\u015f\u0131nmada da aramak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ancak ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ele\u015ftirmek, insan\u0131n kendi pay\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece eksik kal\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemsiz \u015feylere tak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen ki\u015fi, kendisinin de ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na gere\u011finden fazla tak\u0131l\u0131p tak\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmelidir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fs\u0131zl\u0131kla su\u00e7layan, kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k buldu\u011funu da g\u00f6rebilmelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00f6z ele\u015ftiri, yaln\u0131zca yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmek de\u011fil, kendisini hakl\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yerde bile durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilmektir. \u0130nsan, ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131ndaki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sorgulamad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, ele\u015ftirisi bir de\u011fi\u015fim aray\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kar ve kendi hakl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 do\u011frulama \u00e7abas\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Elbette herkes hayata ayn\u0131 anlam\u0131 y\u00fcklemeyecek, ayn\u0131 \u015feyleri \u00f6nemsemeyecektir. Fakat bu farkl\u0131l\u0131klar, insan\u0131n kendisine ve \u00e7evresine verdi\u011fi zarar\u0131 sorgulamas\u0131na engel de\u011fildir. Bir meselenin ki\u015fi i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli olmas\u0131, o mesele u\u011fruna her \u015feyden vazge\u00e7mesini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmaz. \u0130ncindi\u011fi i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 incitmek, haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa u\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek b\u00fct\u00fcn ili\u015fkilerini hesapla\u015fmaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek, insan\u0131n kendi huzurunu da kaybetmesine yol a\u00e7ar. Olgunluk, her meseleye tepki g\u00f6stermek de\u011fil, hangi meselenin ger\u00e7ekten \u00fczerinde durmaya de\u011fer oldu\u011funu anlayabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de bug\u00fcn en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fumuz \u015fey, insan\u0131n kendisine d\u00f6n\u00fcp bakmas\u0131d\u0131r. Neyi \u00f6nemsedi\u011fini, zaman\u0131n\u0131 neye harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, kimleri \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ve nas\u0131l bir hayat kurdu\u011funu sorgulamas\u0131d\u0131r. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmek kolay, kendi yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla y\u00fczle\u015fmek zordur. Toplumu ele\u015ftirmek kolay, ele\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kabul etmek zordur. De\u011fi\u015fimin ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan ba\u015flamas\u0131n\u0131 bekleyen insan, kendisinin de bu de\u011fi\u015fimin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 oldu\u011funu unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mesele, insan\u0131n hi\u00e7bir \u015feye \u00fcz\u00fclmemesi veya g\u00fcndelik sorunlar\u0131 \u00f6nemsiz g\u00f6rmesi de\u011fildir. Mesele, neye de\u011fer verdi\u011fini bilmesi ve u\u011fruna \u00f6dedi\u011fi bedelin fark\u0131nda olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Hayat kendi zorluklar\u0131n\u0131 beraberinde getirirken, insan\u0131n bir de kendi elleriyle huzursuzluk \u00fcretmesi \u00fczerinde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi gereken bir \u00e7eli\u015fkidir. Belki de kendimize sormam\u0131z gereken en \u00f6nemli soru \u015fudur: Ger\u00e7ekten \u00f6nemli olan \u015feyleri ya\u015famak i\u00e7in mi m\u00fccadele ediyoruz, yoksa \u00f6nemsiz meselelerle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131rken hayat\u0131n kendisini mi ka\u00e7\u0131r\u0131yoruz?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130nsan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi, kafa yormas\u0131 ve m\u00fccadele etmesi gereken o kadar \u00f6nemli mesele varken, hayat\u0131n\u0131 basit, s\u0131radan ve \u00e7o\u011fu zaman hi\u00e7bir anlam ta\u015f\u0131mayan konular etraf\u0131nda t\u00fcketmesi ciddi bir \u00e7eli\u015fkidir. \u0130nsan, kendisini ve \u00e7evresini ilgilendiren as\u0131l meseleleri g\u00f6z ard\u0131 ederken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck anla\u015fmazl\u0131klar\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcyor, \u00f6nemsiz s\u00f6zlere anlamlar y\u00fckl\u00fcyor, hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmak u\u011fruna ili\u015fkilerini y\u0131prat\u0131yor; bazen de b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":620,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"jnews_post_split":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[47],"tags":[149,145,151],"class_list":["post-619","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-insan","tag-insan-kendine-ne-zaman-yabancilasti","tag-knn","tag-knn-net-tr"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/619","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=619"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/619\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":621,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/619\/revisions\/621"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/620"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=619"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=619"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=619"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}