“Yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyi ya\u015famadan \u00f6lmezsin.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kimi i\u00e7in s\u0131radan bir s\u00f6z olabilir bu. Birka\u00e7 saniye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp ge\u00e7er insan\u0131n zihninden. Oysa baz\u0131 s\u00f6zler vard\u0131r; anlam\u0131n\u0131 okudu\u011fun anda de\u011fil, hayat seni o anlam\u0131n i\u00e7ine b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda anlars\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 uzaktan yarg\u0131lamay\u0131 sever. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc uzaktayken her \u015fey kolayd\u0131r. Ac\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131yken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenir. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131yken tercih gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Hata yapan insan\u0131n hatas\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcl\u00fcr, d\u00fc\u015fen insan\u0131n neden d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc sorgulan\u0131r, de\u011fi\u015fen insan ise \u00e7o\u011fu zaman su\u00e7lan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ta ki hayat ayn\u0131 kap\u0131y\u0131 kendi y\u00fcz\u00fcne a\u00e7ana kadar…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130\u015fte insan\u0131n as\u0131l s\u0131nav\u0131 burada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u00fcn yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 bug\u00fcn kendinde bulabilirsin. D\u00fcn anlam veremedi\u011fin bir suskunlu\u011fun i\u00e7ine bug\u00fcn sen g\u00f6m\u00fclebilirsin. D\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsedi\u011fin bir \u00e7aresizli\u011fi, bir g\u00fcn kimseye belli etmeden ta\u015f\u0131yabilirsin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve o zaman anlars\u0131n;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan, ya\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin h\u00e2kimidir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin ise san\u0131\u011f\u0131…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n kendisi hakk\u0131nda kurdu\u011fu b\u00fct\u00fcn c\u00fcmleler, hayat taraf\u0131ndan bir g\u00fcn mutlaka s\u0131nan\u0131r. \u201cBen asla b\u00f6yle yapmam\u201d dedi\u011fin yerde durdurulursun. \u201cBen bunu asla affetmem\u201d dedi\u011fin insanla ayn\u0131 ac\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde kal\u0131rs\u0131n. \u201cBen olsam giderdim\u201d dedi\u011fin yerde kalmak zorunda kal\u0131rs\u0131n.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hayat\u0131n garip taraf\u0131 da budur zaten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Seni ba\u015fkalar\u0131nda ele\u015ftirdi\u011fin \u015feylerle s\u0131nar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve insan \u00e7o\u011fu zaman kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131, o s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131na itildi\u011finde \u00f6\u011frenir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyin i\u00e7inde, asl\u0131nda kendine ait bir par\u00e7ay\u0131 g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda de\u011fi\u015firsin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren \u015fey \u00e7o\u011fu zaman \u00f6\u011f\u00fct de\u011fildir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feydir. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hik\u00e2yesini dinlemek ba\u015fka, o hik\u00e2yenin i\u00e7inde kendini bulmak bamba\u015fkad\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
S\u0131rad\u0131\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da tam burada fark eder insan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yad\u0131rgan\u0131lan durumun tecelliyetinde…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc herkes ayn\u0131 ac\u0131y\u0131 ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ta\u015f\u0131maz. Herkes ayn\u0131 ihanetten ayn\u0131 insan olarak \u00e7\u0131kmaz. Herkes ayn\u0131 kayb\u0131n ard\u0131ndan ayn\u0131 yere bakmaz. Kimi k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r ve susar, kimi k\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r ve sertle\u015fir. Kimi kendini kaybeder, kimi ilk defa kendini bulur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Belki de insan\u0131 s\u0131rad\u0131\u015f\u0131 yapan \u015fey, ba\u015f\u0131na gelenler de\u011fil; ba\u015f\u0131na gelenlerden sonra kim oldu\u011fudur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hepimiz bir g\u00fcn, bug\u00fcn yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir hayat\u0131n i\u00e7inde bulabiliriz kendimizi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
O g\u00fcn ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 yarg\u0131larken kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z kelimeler susar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131na d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bakarken \u00e7ok \u015fey bilir; kendi hayat\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ine d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden emin de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bu y\u00fczden kimseyi ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 hayat \u00fczerinden fazla k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsememek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n haf\u0131zas\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bug\u00fcn ba\u015fkas\u0131na reva g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bir c\u00fcmleyi yar\u0131n kendin duyabilirsin. Bug\u00fcn k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsedi\u011fin bir yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yar\u0131n odan\u0131n i\u00e7inde tek ba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015fayabilirsin. Bug\u00fcn \u201colmaz\u201d dedi\u011fin \u015fey, yar\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131n en ger\u00e7ek taraf\u0131 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve belki de insan\u0131n olgunla\u015fmas\u0131, yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyleri anlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde de\u011fil; bir zamanlar yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feyin kendi ba\u015f\u0131na geldi\u011fini kabul edebildi\u011fi yerde ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 ger\u00e7ekler anlat\u0131larak \u00f6\u011frenilmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ya\u015fan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Baz\u0131 ac\u0131lar ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcnde g\u00f6r\u00fclerek anla\u015f\u0131lmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan\u0131n kendi y\u00fcz\u00fcne yerle\u015fmesi gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ve baz\u0131 s\u00f6zlerin anlam\u0131, insan\u0131n hayat\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bulmadan ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyi ya\u015famadan \u00f6lmezsin.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat, insan\u0131n kendisinden ka\u00e7mas\u0131na izin vermez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir g\u00fcn mutlaka seni, ba\u015fkas\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsedi\u011fin o h\u00e2lin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na oturtur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015fte o g\u00fcn anlars\u0131n…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015fey belki de senden o kadar uzak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sadece hen\u00fcz senin ba\u015f\u0131na gelmemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" “Yad\u0131rgad\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u015feyi ya\u015famadan \u00f6lmezsin.” Kimi i\u00e7in s\u0131radan bir s\u00f6z olabilir bu. Birka\u00e7 saniye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp ge\u00e7er insan\u0131n zihninden. Oysa baz\u0131 s\u00f6zler vard\u0131r; anlam\u0131n\u0131 okudu\u011fun anda de\u011fil, hayat seni o anlam\u0131n i\u00e7ine b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda anlars\u0131n. \u0130nsan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 uzaktan yarg\u0131lamay\u0131 sever. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc uzaktayken her \u015fey kolayd\u0131r. Ac\u0131, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131yken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenir. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131yken tercih gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Hata yapan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":486,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":{"format":"standard"},"jnews_primary_category":[],"jnews_social_meta":[],"jnews_review":[],"enable_review":"","type":"","name":"","summary":"","brand":"","sku":"","good":[],"bad":[],"score_override":"","override_value":"","rating":[],"price":[],"jnews_override_counter":[],"jnews_post_split":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[44,1],"tags":[77,80,78,76],"class_list":["post-485","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-felsefe","category-genel","tag-olmek","tag-yadirgamak","tag-yargi","tag-yasamak"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/485","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=485"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/485\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":487,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/485\/revisions\/487"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=485"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=485"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=485"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}