\u0130nsan bazen kendini b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fck\u00e7e asl\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn fark\u0131na varmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kibir tam da burada ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u0130nsan kendini ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc an, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltm\u00fc\u015f olmaz yaln\u0131zca; kendi i\u00e7indeki eksikli\u011fi de g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr hale getirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten kendinden emin olan insan\u0131n, kendini ispatlamak i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 ezmeye ihtiyac\u0131 yoktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kibir, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00fcc\u00fcn de\u011fil, eksikli\u011fin sesidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir insan ne kadar \u00e7ok \u201cben\u201d demeye ba\u015flad\u0131ysa, bazen o kadar uzakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r kendinden. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n de\u011feri, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011ferini azaltarak y\u00fckselmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Birinin susmas\u0131n\u0131 zay\u0131fl\u0131k, Orada art\u0131k \u00f6zg\u00fcvenden de\u011fil, kibirden s\u00f6z etmek gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kibir insana \u00f6nce aynay\u0131 unutturur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kendi kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmez olur insan. Her hatas\u0131nda bir bahane bulur, her k\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kalpte kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kibir, insana yan\u0131labilece\u011fini kabul ettirmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa insan olmak biraz da yan\u0131lmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00fc\u015fmektir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fcten \u015fey her zaman kazand\u0131klar\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen kaybettikleridir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen bir insan\u0131n arkas\u0131ndan bak\u0131p \u201cke\u015fke\u201d diyebilmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen de y\u0131llarca ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 gururunu bir kenara b\u0131rak\u0131p, \u201cBen de hata yapt\u0131m.\u201d diyebilmesidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kibir ise insana bunlar\u0131 \u00e7ok g\u00f6rd\u00fcr\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kibirli insan \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemekten \u00e7ok, hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 \u00f6nemser.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sevilmekten \u00e7ok \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fcnmek ister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Anla\u015f\u0131lmaktan \u00e7ok son s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6ylemek ister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve fark\u0131nda olmadan \u00e7evresindeki insanlar\u0131 birer birer uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sonra da yaln\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, neden herkesin de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Oysa \u00e7o\u011fu zaman de\u011fi\u015fen insanlar de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nsan\u0131n kendisidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir zamanlar yan\u0131nda duran insanlar\u0131n sevgisini s\u0131radanla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, varl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 garanti sanm\u0131\u015f, sab\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 sonsuz zannetmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ta ki o insanlar gidene kadar…<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130\u015fte insan bazen birinin de\u011ferini, hayat\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda anlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kibir de \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insan\u0131n elinden en de\u011ferli \u015feyleri ald\u0131ktan sonra konu\u015fur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar kaybettiklerinde de\u011fil, kaybettirdiklerinde yaln\u0131z kald\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 fark ederler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat\u0131n en ac\u0131 taraf\u0131 da budur belki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0130nsan, kendisini b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc zannederken \u00e7evresindeki her \u015feyi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ama insan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltt\u00fck\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fcmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tam tersine, kendi i\u00e7indeki bo\u015flu\u011fu b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ger\u00e7ek b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fck ise ba\u015fka bir yerde sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bir insan\u0131 ezebilecekken incitmemektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hakl\u0131yken susabilmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyken merhamet edebilmektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve en \u00f6nemlisi…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kendini d\u00fcnyan\u0131n merkezinde g\u00f6rmemektir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnya, hi\u00e7bir insan\u0131n etraf\u0131nda d\u00f6nm\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn alk\u0131\u015flanan yar\u0131n unutulabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olan yar\u0131n yard\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bug\u00fcn tepeden bakan, yar\u0131n ayn\u0131 insanlar\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hayat insana bunu er ya da ge\u00e7 \u00f6\u011fretir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve insan\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne sonunda hep ayn\u0131 soruyu b\u0131rak\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cSen ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fck m\u00fcyd\u00fcn, yoksa sadece kendini b\u00fcy\u00fck m\u00fc san\u0131yordun?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Belki de insan\u0131n kendisiyle y\u00fczle\u015fmesi gereken en zor soru budur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 bazen kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Bazen insan\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131, kendisine fazlas\u0131yla inand\u0131\u011f\u0131 o aynadaki g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve o aynada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz \u015fey ne kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrse g\u00f6r\u00fcns\u00fcn, unutulmamas\u0131 gereken bir ger\u00e7ek vard\u0131r:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kibir insan\u0131 y\u00fckseltti\u011fini san\u0131rken, insan\u0131n i\u00e7indeki insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 sessizce a\u015fa\u011f\u0131ya \u00e7eker.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sonunda geriye ne makam kal\u0131r, ne g\u00fc\u00e7, ne \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sadece insan kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve insan, insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetti\u011fi yerde asl\u0131nda kendini kaybetmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130nsan bazen kendini b\u00fcy\u00fctt\u00fck\u00e7e asl\u0131nda k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn fark\u0131na varmaz. Kibir tam da burada ba\u015flar. \u0130nsan kendini ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc an, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcltm\u00fc\u015f olmaz yaln\u0131zca; kendi i\u00e7indeki eksikli\u011fi de g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr hale getirir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten kendinden emin olan insan\u0131n, kendini ispatlamak i\u00e7in ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131 ezmeye ihtiyac\u0131 yoktur. Kibir, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman g\u00fcc\u00fcn de\u011fil, eksikli\u011fin sesidir. 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birinin affetmesini acizlik,
birinin gitmesini kay\u0131p,
birinin sevgisini ise mecburiyet san\u0131yorsan…<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Eksilmektir.
Yanl\u0131\u015f yapmakt\u0131r.
Bazen \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemektir.
Bazen de hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu bildi\u011fin halde bir insan\u0131 kaybetmemek i\u00e7in susabilmektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n