{"id":375,"date":"2026-08-26T14:17:37","date_gmt":"2026-08-26T11:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/?p=375"},"modified":"2026-08-26T14:17:37","modified_gmt":"2026-08-26T11:17:37","slug":"cocuklugumuzun-gencleri-birer-birer-eksiliyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.knn.net.tr\/index.php\/2026\/08\/26\/cocuklugumuzun-gencleri-birer-birer-eksiliyor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun Gen\u00e7leri Birer Birer Eksiliyor"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsan\u0131n ya\u015f ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fcnde beliren \u00e7izgilerden \u00e7ok, ge\u00e7mi\u015finden insanlar\u0131n birer birer eksildi\u011fini g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde anl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri vard\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mahallenin delikanl\u0131lar\u0131, sokaklar\u0131n ne\u015feli insanlar\u0131, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde halay ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekenler, kahvenin \u00f6n\u00fcnde saatlerce oturanlar, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin yan\u0131nda sayg\u0131yla duran ama kendi aralar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar gibi g\u00fclenler\u2026 Biz onlar\u0131 hep gen\u00e7 hat\u0131rlad\u0131k. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizim haf\u0131zam\u0131zda onlar hi\u00e7 ya\u015flanmad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oysa zaman ge\u00e7ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck, onlar ya\u015fland\u0131. Sonra baz\u0131lar\u0131 sessizce aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131lmaya ba\u015flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birinin \u00f6l\u00fcm haberini duydu\u011fumuzda yaln\u0131zca bir insan\u0131n \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyoruz art\u0131k. Onunla birlikte ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizden bir sayfan\u0131n daha kapand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissediyoruz. Bir zamanlar bildi\u011fimiz bir y\u00fcz, duydu\u011fumuz bir ses, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzun bir soka\u011f\u0131, bir bayram sabah\u0131, bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn gecesi, bir yaz ak\u015fam\u0131 da sanki onunla birlikte uzakla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar sadece insan de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onlar bizim ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizin tan\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzu bilen, nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6ren, hangi sokaklarda oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlayan, belki de bizim kendimiz hakk\u0131nda unuttu\u011fumuz \u015feyleri bile hat\u0131rlayan insanlard\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131, ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizle bug\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz aras\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeyen bir k\u00f6pr\u00fc kurar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir g\u00fcn o k\u00f6pr\u00fclerden biri daha y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Telefon gelir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cVefat etmi\u015f.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130ki kelime\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama insan\u0131n i\u00e7inde a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 bo\u015fluk iki kelimeyle anlat\u0131lamaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir s\u00fcre sessiz kal\u0131r\u0131z. Sonra eski g\u00fcnler gelir akl\u0131m\u0131za. Y\u00fcz\u00fc belirir g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00f6n\u00fcnde. Sesi kula\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u00e7\u0131nlar. Belki y\u0131llard\u0131r g\u00f6rmedi\u011fimiz halde onu sanki d\u00fcn g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f\u00fcz gibi hat\u0131rlar\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve sonra fark ederiz ki asl\u0131nda \u00f6zledi\u011fimiz yaln\u0131zca o insan de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onunla birlikte <strong>kendimizin eski halini<\/strong> de \u00f6zl\u00fcyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan \u00e7ocuklu\u011funu tek ba\u015f\u0131na hat\u0131rlamaz. \u00c7ocukluk, insanlarla birlikte hat\u0131rlan\u0131r. Bir arkada\u015f, bir kom\u015fu, bir \u00f6\u011fretmen, bir akraba, bir mahalle b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u2026 Her biri haf\u0131zam\u0131zdaki ba\u015fka bir kap\u0131y\u0131 a\u00e7ar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir insan gider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir kap\u0131 kapan\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir daha o kap\u0131dan ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ge\u00e7emeyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki de bu y\u00fczden ya\u015f ilerledik\u00e7e cenazeler daha a\u011f\u0131r gelir insana. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k gidenlerin ard\u0131ndan yaln\u0131zca \u201cbir insan eksildi\u201d demeyiz. \u201cBir d\u00f6nem daha bitti\u201d deriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri gidiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fcn onlar\u0131 gen\u00e7 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorduk. Bug\u00fcn foto\u011fraflar\u0131na bak\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fcn seslerini duyuyorduk. Bug\u00fcn isimlerini an\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fcn ayn\u0131 sokaklarda y\u00fcr\u00fcyorduk. Bug\u00fcn o sokaklarda ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi ar\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zaman\u0131n en ac\u0131 taraf\u0131 da bu galiba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi oldu\u011fu yerde b\u0131rakm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiriyor, evleri y\u0131k\u0131yor, sokaklar\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcyor, al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 unutturuyor. Bir zamanlar kalabal\u0131k olan sofralar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fcyor. Bayramlarda bir araya gelen insanlar azal\u0131yor. Telefon rehberimizde y\u0131llard\u0131r kay\u0131tl\u0131 olan baz\u0131 isimler art\u0131k aranm\u0131yor; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o numaran\u0131n di\u011fer ucunda kimse kalm\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve biz her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn biraz daha ge\u00e7mi\u015fe ait hale geliyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki de ya\u015flanmak tam olarak budur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sa\u00e7lar\u0131n beyazlamas\u0131 de\u011fildir yaln\u0131zca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Hat\u0131ralar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131, hat\u0131ralar\u0131nda ya\u015fayan insanlar\u0131n azalmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir g\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzdan kalan insanlar\u0131n neredeyse tamam\u0131 gitmi\u015f olacak. O zaman bizim anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hik\u00e2yeleri bizden ba\u015fka kimse hat\u0131rlamayacak. \u201cEskiden b\u00f6yleydi\u201d dedi\u011fimizde bizi anlayan insanlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 azalacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu y\u00fczden bug\u00fcn h\u00e2l\u00e2 hayatta olan insanlara biraz daha dikkatli bakmak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir telefon a\u00e7mak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir halini hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 sormak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Birlikte oturup eski g\u00fcnlerden konu\u015fmak\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki de en \u00f6nemlisi, \u201cDaha sonra g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcz\u201d demeden \u00f6nce ger\u00e7ekten g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck yan\u0131lg\u0131lar\u0131ndan biri, hep vaktimiz oldu\u011funu sanmak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oysa baz\u0131 insanlar bug\u00fcn vard\u0131r, yar\u0131n yoktur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 sesleri bir daha duyamay\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 elleri bir daha s\u0131kamay\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 sofralara bir daha oturamay\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve baz\u0131 insanlara s\u00f6ylemek istedi\u011fimiz g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler, i\u00e7imizde s\u00f6ylenmeden kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri birer birer gidiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biz de onlar\u0131n ard\u0131ndan bakarken, asl\u0131nda zaman\u0131n bize ne kadar h\u0131zl\u0131 yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ediyoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her giden, bize biraz daha hayat\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her \u00f6l\u00fcm, kendi sonumuzu de\u011fil belki ama hayat\u0131n ge\u00e7icili\u011fini y\u00fcz\u00fcm\u00fcze biraz daha a\u00e7\u0131k g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bu y\u00fczden geriye kalanlara sahip \u00e7\u0131kmak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hat\u0131rlamak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aramak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sar\u0131lmak gerekiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir g\u00fcn bizim \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuz da bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hat\u0131ras\u0131 olacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki birileri y\u0131llar sonra bizim foto\u011fraf\u0131m\u0131za bak\u0131p, \u201c\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri de birer birer gidiyor\u201d diyecek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve o g\u00fcn geldi\u011finde geride b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z en de\u011ferli \u015fey; ne kadar ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, ne kadar kazand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ya da ne kadar \u015fey sahibi oldu\u011fumuz de\u011fil, <strong>insanlar\u0131n haf\u0131zas\u0131nda nas\u0131l bir iz b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z<\/strong> olacak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri gidiyor\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Onlarla birlikte zaman\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 da gidiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ama hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z s\u00fcrece tamamen kaybolmuyorlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc baz\u0131 insanlar \u00f6l\u00fcr, fakat hayat\u0131m\u0131zdan hi\u00e7 \u00e7\u0131kmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir foto\u011frafta kal\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir c\u00fcmlede ya\u015farlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir sokak k\u00f6\u015fesinde kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131karlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bir \u015fark\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7inde yeniden seslenirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve bazen hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fimiz bir anda, \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzun bir ak\u015fam\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi, yeniden yan\u0131m\u0131zda belirirler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Belki de insan\u0131n ge\u00e7mi\u015fine yapabilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck iyilik budur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Unutmamak.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan, hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece biraz da ya\u015famaya devam eder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri birer birer gidiyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Biz ise onlar\u0131n b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 hat\u0131ralar\u0131n aras\u0131nda, kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011fumuzu aramaya devam ediyoruz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nsan\u0131n ya\u015f ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, aynaya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda y\u00fcz\u00fcnde beliren \u00e7izgilerden \u00e7ok, ge\u00e7mi\u015finden insanlar\u0131n birer birer eksildi\u011fini g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde anl\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklu\u011fumuzun gen\u00e7leri vard\u0131\u2026 Mahallenin delikanl\u0131lar\u0131, sokaklar\u0131n ne\u015feli insanlar\u0131, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde halay ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekenler, kahvenin \u00f6n\u00fcnde saatlerce oturanlar, b\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin yan\u0131nda sayg\u0131yla duran ama kendi aralar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar gibi g\u00fclenler\u2026 Biz onlar\u0131 hep gen\u00e7 hat\u0131rlad\u0131k. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizim haf\u0131zam\u0131zda onlar hi\u00e7 ya\u015flanmad\u0131. 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